forgive me. this post is short on photos.
i have over 175 from the weekend, but most are from lib's bonspiel. um, to the casual observer, they just look all alike, so i'll spare you.
we hit the road friday at noon. with only one exam for her in the morning, the day was pretty stress free. a quick stop to target for nail polish (libby), and a few unexpected sale/clothing items, plus some snacks and we were on our way. rain all the way to the cape. i suppose it might have been snow if it were any other winter than the one we are having.
nails were painted and a nap was taken after we arrived at the hotel. dinner at our favorite diner, (betsy's in falmouth with the best kitchen tables ever!) then a 9:45pm game and win. i was still waking from the nap i think, but enjoyed good conversation with dear friends.
no knitting.
saturday brought two games, both were wins so an advance to the first event finals for sunday. libby's team was made up of friends she has curled with over the past six years, all from our local club, but not from the same school. they have a special friendship, and watching them on the ice reminded me how lucky she is to have these relationships. they are all seniors and will be going their separate ways next september. in their own way they celebrated what would be their last hurrah. and it began to hit me. she really is going away to school, and that things are changing. i have this not-so-good habit of burying emotions, and have moved along in the college process as if it were just a job, never dwelling on how i feel about it all. well, emotions are surfacing. sigh. it was all smiles, all weekend though. i couldn't take my eyes off them, on and off the ice.
so, no knitting.
saturday night i found myself on the phone with anna as she struggled with issues of the pre-adult variety. it's hard at almost 21. i listened, offered advice, and heard her play things out over and over. i couldn't fix the situation, nor should i, just offered support from afar. it tugs at your heart that's for sure, when things are so good for one child and not the other. the kids went to a movie and dinner hosted by the curling club for all the players. the parents went out for a fabulous dinner. later, our kids and families hung out for a bit in a conference room at the hotel, playing cards, bannagrams and sharing stories and a glass of wine. (parents, not kids) funny, i think it's exactly what we all wanted to do.
sunday's game was a tough one, a nail-biter to be sure.
definitely no knitting.
the last end was set-up perfectly for a win for our team, and a finish as the event winners. the last stone was thrown, only to catch something in the ice and fall out of play. heartbreaking.
i don't think i could have been more proud of how our kids handled that loss. they quickly realized there was nothing they could do, customarily shook hands with the other team and came off the ice with smiles. many teams would not have behaved so maturely.
these are some great young people. they are going to be even better adults.
lib was a bit teary-eyed as she recognized her teammates during awards. it's exciting to be where she's at in her life, and bittersweet too. good memories will take her a long way, and make the journey that much easier. for that i am thankful.
so we are off this monday. back to school and a new and final semester. oh boy.
ok, now i might need to knit.